The Surrendered Life!

The Surrendered Life!

Happy Monday, friends,
 
It's the day after Easter. For many of us, Resurrection Sunday stirred our hearts with gratitude for what Jesus has done for us. You're not alone if you sensed spiritual renewal and a desire to renew your commitment to God.
 
And yet, it's Monday. Some of us are waking up to a renewed faith that is already being tested by real life! 
 
How do we continue to live in the victory that Jesus won for us on the cross? How do we trust God and stay encouraged when we look at our lives, our families, our finances, or our relationships and want to pull our hair out?
 
I love what the late Tim Keller said: “If Jesus Christ was actually raised form the dead. If he really got up, walked out, was seen by hundreds of people, and talked to them, then everything is going to be alright. Whatever you're worried about - whatever you're afraid of, everything is going to be okay.”
 
To help us walk in Jesus' victory for these next few weeks after Easter, I'm kicking off a new Happy Monday series called “The Surrendered Life,” and as Jesus trusted God with his life, even when it was hard, we can trust God with our lives, even when it's hard. Trust often looks like surrender, and if you're like me, letting go of control isn't easy.
 
It's hard to care about someone or something so much and not fix it.
It's tough to be patient and let God work things out in His time.
Sometimes, we don't know how to stop being the Fixer, the Savings & Loan, or the Glue to tries to hold everyone together.
 
Why do we default to fix, even when we know it's not good for us or them?
 
Here's my belief: Often, our desire to control arises from the secret fear that God won't get it right. It's a fear that God won't get through to your loved one or He won't fix the crisis in time. 
 
Easter demonstrates that the same God who raised Jesus from the dead is at work in EVERYTHING you've been trying to control. Your efforts to fix or force solutions won't mess up God's power, but your efforts to fix or control will wreck your peace.
 
During “The Surrendered Life” series, we'll look at six Surrendered Principles from my popular Surrendered: Letting Go and Living Like Jesus Bible study - which turns SIX on Tuesday! I'm including an advanced peek of all six principles in this graphic (see below) that you can save on your phone. Which one of these catches your eye today? Next week, we'll start with Surrender Principle #1 and go from there.
For now, I'd like to offer one practical, but powerful surrender prayer to help you today and the rest of this week. As you've read, did you feel God's prompting to let go of something beyond your control? Dear friend, let me help you be obedient to that leading. Here is a prayer that you can use. This is my favorite surrender prayer from my Stronger Than Stress book and Bible study:
 
PRAYER: God, I can't. But You can. I will let You. Amen.
 
Who or what do you need to pray this over? This prayer isn't for God, this prayer for you! This prayer releases you from the weight and responsibility that only God can carry. He can handle it - all of it, my friend. All of it.
 
Letting go isn't easy. God can do more than you could ever ask or imagine when you trust Him. It's okay if you need to repeat that little prayer a few times until your heart settles on giving the person or matter into His care and His timing.
 
I'm looking forward to the upcoming series with you!

ARE YOU TRYING TO TRUST GOD, BUT STILL HOLDING TIGHTLY TO CONTROL?

 

My Surrendered: Letting Go and Living Like Jesus Bible study is my most popular study! This six-week study offers a powerful, Scripture-based Bible study that helps women release control and fully trust God in every area of life. Rooted in Jesus’ time of testing in the wilderness, this study reveals how surrender is not weakness, but the ONLY path to God's peace, freedom, and spiritual strength.

Read the Entire Series: The Surrendered Life!

Finding Peace in Life’s Tough Transitions | Interview with Courtney Ellis

Finding Peace in Life’s Tough Transitions | Interview with Courtney Ellis

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What do you do when the life you planned gives way to a season you never saw coming?

In today’s episode, Barb is joined by pastor, author, and podcaster Courtney Ellis for a thoughtful conversation about navigating life’s tough transitions. Together they explore why God created change, what nature can teach us about living through it, and why even good change can bring real grief. 

If you’re facing a transition—expected or unexpected—this episode offers wisdom, honesty, and hope for the road ahead.

 

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

Connect with Courtney on Instagram

Connect with Courtney on Facebook

Weathering Change: Seeking Peace Amidst Life's Tough Transitions

Visit Courtney's Website

 

ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUEST

Courtney Ellis is a pastor at Presbyterian Church of the Master in Mission Viejo, California. She is the author of six books, including Looking Up: A Birder’s Guide to Hope Through Grief. Courtney hosts The Thing with Feathers, a podcast about birds and hope.

Experience Life-Transforming Power of Prayer

Pray Like This Bible Study by Barb Roose

As a Christian, you know you’re supposed to pray. But do you ever find yourself wrestling with any of these questions related to prayer?

Do I have to pray the right way for God to answer my prayer?

Do I have to pray the right way for God to answer my prayer?

Am I still praying if I read pre-written prayers?

If you’ve pondered these questions or others about prayer, my Pray Like Bible Study is for you.

Even if you're a prayer warrior, Pray Like This sharpens your prayer focus and is a great resource for you to teach others about prayer.There's a reason why Jesus was passionate about prayer and I want to show you how!

How to Keep Believing When You’re Still Waiting | Interview with Lauren Gaskill

How to Keep Believing When You’re Still Waiting | Interview with Lauren Gaskill

Waiting for a miracle can be one of the hardest places to live, especially when faith wears thin, answers are delayed, and hope feels fragile.

In this episode, Barb talks with her long-time friend, author Lauren Gaskill about what it means to hold on to a faith that just won’t quit. Drawing from her book Until the Miracle Comes, Lauren shares how to begin again when disappointment has shaken your faith. She’ll share encouragement to remember your God-given identity changes everything. She tells us about why lament is a vital part of our faith journeys. This episode will remind you that God is working, even when you cannot see it.

If you’re believing for a breakthrough and wondering how to keep going, join Barb and Lauren for this powerful conversation.

 

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

Connect with Lauren on Instagram

Connect with Lauren on Facebook

Until the Miracle Comes: Finding Victory in a Faith That Won’t Quit

Visit Lauren's Website

 

ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUEST

Lauren Gaskill is an author, speaker, and the founder of the She Found Joy Podcast and retreats. She is passionate about helping others encounter Jesus and become transformed by His love. In her spare time she enjoys singing, hiking with her husband and sons, and baking just about anything — from cookies to crème brûlée.

Experience Life-Transforming Power of Prayer

Pray Like This Bible Study by Barb Roose

As a Christian, you know you’re supposed to pray. But do you ever find yourself wrestling with any of these questions related to prayer?

Do I have to pray the right way for God to answer my prayer?

Do I have to pray the right way for God to answer my prayer?

Am I still praying if I read pre-written prayers?

If you’ve pondered these questions or others about prayer, my Pray Like Bible Study is for you.

Even if you're a prayer warrior, Pray Like This sharpens your prayer focus and is a great resource for you to teach others about prayer.There's a reason why Jesus was passionate about prayer and I want to show you how!

Why God Loves You Completely | Interview with Glenna Marshall

Why God Loves You Completely | Interview with Glenna Marshall

What would change if you truly believed you are fully known—and fully loved—by God?

In this episode, Barb is joined by author Glenna Marshall to talk about her book Known & Loved and the life-changing truths of Psalm 139. Together, they explore how God’s love differs from ours, and how the gospel reshapes our understanding of shame, suffering, and doubt. This conversation invites us to lift our eyes from ourselves and fix our gaze on the one true God whose love never runs dry.

 

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

Connect with Glenna on Instagram

Connect with Glenna on Facebook

Known and Loved: Experiencing the Affection of God in Psalm 139

Visit Glenna's Website

 

ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUEST

Glenna Marshall is married to her pastor, William, and is the mother of two sons. She is the author of The Promise Is His Presence, Everyday Faithfulness, Memorizing Scripture, and Known and Loved. She is a member of Grace Bible Fellowship in Sikeston, Missouri, where she and her husband have served for over twenty years.

Experience Life-Transforming Power of Prayer

Pray Like This Bible Study by Barb Roose

 

As a Christian, you know you’re supposed to pray. But do you ever find yourself wrestling with any of these questions related to prayer?

Do I have to pray the right way for God to answer my prayer?

Do I have to pray the right way for God to answer my prayer?

Am I still praying if I read pre-written prayers?

If you’ve pondered these questions or others about prayer, my Pray Like Bible Study is for you.

Even if you're a prayer warrior, Pray Like This sharpens your prayer focus and is a great resource for you to teach others about prayer.There's a reason why Jesus was passionate about prayer and I want to show you how!

Preparing Your Heart for Their Return to the Father

Preparing Your Heart for Their Return to the Father

Happy Monday, friends!
 
Welcome to the final week of our series on praying for our loved ones. Today’s devotion closes out the final part of Jesus’ teaching in Luke 15.
In today’s devotion, we’re going to prepare our hearts in anticipation of our unsaved loved one’s salvation or our prodigal’s return to faith. Let’s read one of our favorite parts of Jesus’ teaching:
 
“So he (the prodigal) returned home to his father. And while he was still a long way off, his father saw him coming. Filled with love and compassion, he ran to his son, embraced him, and kissed him. His son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against both heaven and you, and I am no longer worthy of being called your son.’” -Luke 15:20–21 NLT
 
Next, let’s look at how the father handled himself. There is some important guidance we can draw from this story.
 
1. Be Patient and Hopeful
First, notice how the father was watching and waiting. This speaks to patience and hope. Just as God the Father is patient (2 Peter 3:9) with our unsaved loved ones, the father waited with patience. He did not give up in discouragement or anger.
 
Let’s imagine ourselves in the place of the father. Take a moment and picture your loved one proclaiming Jesus. Together, we are believing God for that. Let it be soon, Lord!
 
Yet for some of us, it feels like that day may never come. I have heard from some of you who feel deeply discouraged because your loved ones still seem so far from God. Can I encourage all of us to remember this:
There is nothing too hard for God. No one is too far from God.
Let’s hold on to that hope today.
 
2. Don’t Bring an “I Was Right” Attitude to Your Anticipated Reunion
Next, notice that when the father saw his son coming, he ran out to meet him. Some of us may think, “The father shouldn’t move one inch until the son makes it right,” or “Does that prodigal even realize everything he put his family through?”
But that is not God’s way. In Romans 5:8, we are reminded that while we were still sinners, God moved toward us by sending Jesus to die for us. God came to make a way, not make us pay. We are called to carry that same spirit toward our unsaved loved ones and prodigals.
 
May I ask a question - and I'm asking with all due respect: Is there any chance that you give off an “I’m right, you’re wrong” attitude toward your unsaved loved ones or prodigals because you’re saved?
 
Our unsaved loved ones and prodigals can sense that “I have Jesus, so I’m better than you” self-righteousness. We may not intend to give it off, but this attitude can quietly creep in.
 
Here are a few signs it might be happening:
  • Your love and engagement flow freely when they make decisions you approve of, but you pull back when they do not.
  • You lose your temper when they express beliefs or behaviors different from what you want for them.
  • Deep down, you know you are judging them for not believing or living the way you do.
Friend, they can sense inconsistency and self-righteousness from a mile away.
We are blessed because we are saved, but we are not better than them. It is only by the grace of God that we live and breathe.
 
God convicted me of this kind of self-righteousness when my former spouse stopped going to church and fell into alcohol addiction. During the early years of that struggle, I was afraid, angry, and confused. To make myself feel better, I compared myself to him and believed I was better. Instead of giving thanks for the faith I could lean into, my pride looked and sounded like the Pharisee in Jesus’ story who prayed, “At least I’m not like this tax collector because I’m doing all the right things” (Luke 18:9–14, paraphrased).
 
As we pray for our unsaved loved ones and prodigals to come home, let’s make sure we carry the father’s heart when we run out to welcome them.
 
3. PRACTICAL STEP: Take the Temperature of Your Heart
First, write down the name(s) of an unsaved loved one or prodigal you have been praying for: ________________________.
 
Next, read the following passage from Colossians 3:12 and ask yourself if you are living out these qualities in your relationship with that person:
 
“Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” -Colossians 3:12 NLT
 
REFLECTION: Which of these qualities are you doing well? Which ones feel difficult? Which ones do you need to pray about and ask God to help you grow in?
 
My prayer for you today is that God would gently deal with any areas of self-righteousness or anything else in your heart, so you stay prepared for the day when your loved one crosses the line of faith or repents. When you allow God to convict your heart and you respond with repentance, you will be more available for God to use you, bless you, and give you peace while you pray and wait.
 
I’D LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU! Did today’s devotion give you hope or encouragement? If so, leave a comment with “encouraged.” If you have a story to share, I’d love to hear it! 

Read the Entire Series: Praying For Our Loved Ones

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